TOP Nine ways to balance your personal and professional life in 09

Happy New Year!

It's that time of the year again to start anew, refreshed, revitalized and excited about the prospects of abundance and success that you will create in the coming year.

Instead of being overwhelmed and excited simultaneously and acting without proper focused intention, I present a nine point mantra guideline to ensure your personal and professional success:

1. RELEASE everything that drains your energy. That means anything that you can't stomach being around; person, place, job or event. Clear it out of your life once and for all. Do so kindly and gently without burning bridges and know within yourself that you will never allow that type of dynamic in your life because you know how physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually draining it was for you.
   
2. ATTRACT your 'velvet rope' friendships, partnerships and relationships. If there is any relationship in your business or your personal life that was made in lack, scarcity or victimhood…anything that seemed easier than just doing it the most aligned way to authenticity, internally and externally, gently release the reigns and believe much better will automatically appear in your life.
   
3. STOP lying to yourself about everything or anything. If you need to lose weight do it, if you don't like your job, create a new one, if you are unhappy in your personal relationship, go to couples therapy and reinvent yourselves and if you have to attract a certain income, discover what's blocking you from living your best life. The reality is, it is only you that is blocking you, there are no real obstacles, there are only the obstacles we manifest to prevent us from breaking through our glass ceiling.
   
4. RECLAIM your joy of life, living, friendships and family. Stop avoiding doing something outrageously fun and off the hook. Let your hair down and stop caring about who has what, is doing what, with whom and how. Focus on you and what you want and what you and your beloveds desire.
   
5. HAVE GRATITUDE for everything good that is in your life. Your couch, car, gym, yoga teacher, food, friendships, money, career and all your contacts, colleagues and business partners. Start loving you and the people in your life.
   
6. ACT on only what has heart and meaning for you. If you hear a 'no' or have hesitation don't do it, if you hear a 'yes' and still have some slight hesitation definitely do it. Action without manifestation is an illusion. Get your finances in order, buy a house, and take a workshop to get your goals aligned. Don't try to do everything by yourself, enlist help from those that can serve you best and collaborate with those that are dream achievers not dream drainers.
   
7. DO what you love and then express that love in everything you do. It's a time of change and it's time to show your skills, to stop 'dumbing' or numbing yourself down and be the incredible, magnificent being that you are! It's time to radically live and embrace your GREATNESS! Show your colleagues what you have, defy the ordinary and exceed to brilliance!
   
8. LIVE your truth and stop accepting any limiting belief that your wounded ego attempts to make you believe. Live your seniority over your past, your wounds, your story or whatever it is that holds you enslaved to its feeding. Be fit and healthy on all levels; mind, body and spirit.
   
9. BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD. There are complainers and drainers or movers and shakers. Be a mover and shaker and when you need to complain put it in your calendar and have a pity party, then get moving and shaking those cobwebs of the 'sameness' out of your being and embrace the physical, emotional, cognitive, spiritual, energetic and psychic you that is awaiting patiently for your story to move out of the way for its evolution. BE, DO, HAVE, LIVE YOUR GREATNESS NOW…AND HAVE AN EXCEEDINGLY PROSPEROUS AND HOLISTIC 2009!